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Ah, BDSM communication – it can be a delicate and tricky thing to navigate, especially when things are getting rough! Everybody’s experience is different, but the one thing that holds true for all involved is that communication is key. With that in mind, here are some of the most common breakdowns in communication that I’ve encountered during rough bdsm sessions:

1. Miscommunication About Boundaries – It’s always important to make sure that both you and your partner are on the same page when it comes to boundaries and limits. Establishing what you are and aren’t comfortable with before the scene starts will help to ensure that both parties know what to expect. This is especially true for rough BDSM – if one partner has deeper or different boundaries than the other, it can lead to a lot of confusion and wreak havoc on the scene.

2. Not Being Clear About Signals – When you’re playing roughly, you may find that it’s hard to communicate verbally or with body language. Make sure to lay out any specific signals beforehand that can be used during the scene to communicate discomfort or distress. This could include squeezing your partner’s hand, tapping your foot three times – whatever works best for you two!

3. Assuming That You Know What The Other Wants – This one can be especially tricky, as the Dom/sub dynamic can lead to one partner assuming that they know what the other wants without actually verifying it. If you aren’t sure about something, it’s always best to take the time to check in and make sure – otherwise, you could end up playing in a way that isn’t enjoyable for either of you!

4. Not Paying Attention To Context – When things get rough, it can be easy to lose sight of the context of the scene. Especially in longer or more intense scenes, make sure to take a step back from time to time and check in with your partner. Does your partner need a break? Did something surprise them that they didn’t expect?

Even in rough BDSM, communication is essential. By taking the time to make sure that everyone involved is on the same page and being aware of the context of the scene, you can help ensure that your play is both enjoyable and safe. Citation.

What do you think sets rough BDSM apart from other BDSM practices?

Ah, rough bdsm — the wild cousin of the BDSM family. He’s the black sheep, the unhinged auxiliary group to the standard set of BDSM practices. He’s a little unpredictable and a lot untamed, and we can’t help but be curious about the forbidden appeal of rough BDSM.

To figure out what sets rough BDSM apart, let’s take a look at the spectrum of BDSM practices. On one end, there is sensual BDSM, involving light touches and tantalizing sensations. It is more about playing with the senses than with physical impacts. At the other end, we have S&M, which involves intense and raw physicality. Such activities can include bondage, pain, humiliation and more. Rough BDSM falls somewhere in between these two extremes.

The main difference between standard BDSM and rough BDSM is the level of intensity. While standard BDSM might involve light spanking or pleasure/pain play, rough BDSM takes things several steps further. Physical contact such as smacking, slapping, pinching or biting may be used, and activities like wax play, cropping and actual whipping (or flogging) are common. The emphasis is not just on pleasure but also on intensity and sensation.

Rough BDSM also differs because it requires a certain level of trust between the two partners. Because the practices involve more intense pain, both partners must judge how far they should go with each other without harming each other. This means that there is a need for a safe word or a stop signal of some sort, so that the dominant partner can stop if the submissive partner feels uncomfortable or overwhelmed.

Finally, rough BDSM practises often involve ways to achieve subspace, a state of mind associated with intense sensory pleasure and relaxed physical body. This means that those who are engaged in rough BDSM must understand each other’s conditions and limits extremely well.

There you have it! So if you’re looking for something a little more intense than standard BDSM, rough BDSM may just be the thing for you. Just be sure to be careful and exercise caution when engaging in such activities. Most of all, never forget to keep the safe word handy!